Why I Cut My Hair….
Everybody keeps asking me, "Girl why did you cut off all that pretty hair?"
First thing's first… It wasn't my hair. Wait, I take that back…Actually it was mine, cause I paid for it!
The other question I get is "Are you going Afro-Centric now?" That one kinda makes me chuckle!
Anyway, It has been something that I've been thinking about since college, I've cut my hair before but, but slapped a perm in it the same day. But that day, I felt was THE DAY! At first I was afraid of what people would think… but then I thought why??? I don't like them or care what they think.
Then I started to think … I would never get any phone numbers or "holla's" in the club with short hair… But then I said to my Self, "Self, you are not getting a date with the #4 Silky Weave, so rocking a Fro would not hurt the pimp game".
So the day I took my weave out I went to my weave specialist and asked her to cut my permed hair off and she told me " NO!!!"
She said " Do you know how you are gonna look??? You are gonna look UGLY!!!"
But you know what? I could not be mad at her because that was 250 bucks out of her pocket.
I left the weave dealer and I went to this barbershop near my house.
I walked in and I asked them to cut my hair and the guys looked at me like I was crazy… Not because I wanted to cut my hair, but they did not speak any English! (Perfect cause now nobody can talk me out of it! LOL.
So one man said, "You want Afro Mammi?" I said "Si… givey mi de Afro, porfavor"
He cut it, and I was cool, I didn't shed a tear.
So I cut it off. And I did feel ugly…I'll never look like Janet Jackson or Tyra Banks… It also means that I will never be in Danity Kane… Nevermind that's not so bad I guess.
The next day I was to meet my group for Bible Study… I told Deniece that I was not going because I cut my hair and didn't want people to talk about me….
She said "Girl, we going to talk about, JESUS… Not you or your HAIR!!!!"
Yeah, that shut me up real quick….
As it is growing out, it is really growing on me! And I see my friends like Mahauganee, Hadiya, Carmen, Carolette, Nette and Janine who are doing the natural thing and are so beautiful and so diva fly!!! Thanks ladies for being my inspiration and support.
Also shout out to all the people who have all the hair care tips and their own personal remedies!
So have created a new album, with all photos of my process!
Here are some websites that keep me motivated.
www.nappturality.com
www.motowngirl.com
www.going-natural.com
www.naturalhairdigest.com
www.fotki.com/queenmoe.
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Friday, July 20, 2007
Sunday, June 24, 2007
Who are the real crazy people in NY?
New York Crazy People,
So help me here,
Today I was on the subway and there was a guy on the train yelling illegible words and jumping up and down like a frog. Then he was falling on the ground rolling on the dirty subway floor, and the whole time drool coming out of his mouth.
Oh! And lets not forget the red plastic hospital i.d. band around his arm…
Now what was amazing to me was not the fact that this man is acting a plum fool, and he should probably get some serious help… what really got me was everybody on the subway just ignored him… like there was nothing wrong!!! One lady just went on reading the paper, another lady just un crossed her legs and moved her legs in closer so the crazy man wouldn't trip while doing his leap frog thing. I'm still fairly new to NYC so tell me this… is that what you are supposed to do just ignore the crazy man? Like shouldn't I call the police or something? What on earth would have to happen for New Yorkers to get scared and move to another subway car… or alert the authoritys…but for real, how can you look at that guy and think "oh, he's harmless"?
I just sat there and looked at everybody like "don't y'all see this man acting a fool?" I wanted to laugh but it wasn't funny… Shoot, I was scared!
I think anywhere else in the world when you see a crazy person doing crazy things in public places you can react in three ways…laugh, runaway, or call the police!!
You know what they say, if everybody around you seems to be crazy, maybe it is you that's crazy??
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So help me here,
Today I was on the subway and there was a guy on the train yelling illegible words and jumping up and down like a frog. Then he was falling on the ground rolling on the dirty subway floor, and the whole time drool coming out of his mouth.
Oh! And lets not forget the red plastic hospital i.d. band around his arm…
Now what was amazing to me was not the fact that this man is acting a plum fool, and he should probably get some serious help… what really got me was everybody on the subway just ignored him… like there was nothing wrong!!! One lady just went on reading the paper, another lady just un crossed her legs and moved her legs in closer so the crazy man wouldn't trip while doing his leap frog thing. I'm still fairly new to NYC so tell me this… is that what you are supposed to do just ignore the crazy man? Like shouldn't I call the police or something? What on earth would have to happen for New Yorkers to get scared and move to another subway car… or alert the authoritys…but for real, how can you look at that guy and think "oh, he's harmless"?
I just sat there and looked at everybody like "don't y'all see this man acting a fool?" I wanted to laugh but it wasn't funny… Shoot, I was scared!
I think anywhere else in the world when you see a crazy person doing crazy things in public places you can react in three ways…laugh, runaway, or call the police!!
You know what they say, if everybody around you seems to be crazy, maybe it is you that's crazy??
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